Why do women fall for thugs yet complain they cant find good guys?

I used to be a thug. Braided hair driving a big body sittin on 30's, this was a while ago people, I stayed high and drunk then I hooked up with this hood chick. She got pregnant I straigtened out got a job cut my hair and stopped drinking. I bought a family car and tried to do right by my son and my family. My girl got bored with the new responsible me and basically stepped out on me with a thug who was still living with mom at 28. Meanwhile I had money and resources property and education yet she lost interest in me. What happened?

Why do women fall for thugs yet complain they cant find good guys?

They are gluttons for punishment. It is admirable that you cleaned yourself up to be a better influence on your son. I, sir, salute you.

Why do women fall for thugs yet complain they cant find good guys?

you evolved. find someone better.

Why do women fall for thugs yet complain they cant find good guys?

CUZ WE ARE STOOPID

Why do women fall for thugs yet complain they cant find good guys?

u weren't acting like a bad boy anymore so she lost interest.

Why do women fall for thugs yet complain they cant find good guys?

u grew up hopefully someday for the sake of ur child she does to. move on hun good for u for being responseable... do u really wanna a thug ********* anyways???

Why do women fall for thugs yet complain they cant find good guys?

Maybe the new you was to boring,sounds like your trying to be ward cleaver just cause she had a baby.

Why do women fall for thugs yet complain they cant find good guys?

It's ok to be hood and responsible.You may have lost all your edge. That doesn't make what she did right but everyone has their desires, just like you have yours. The problem many people have is thinking that just because they have a baby with someone they have to be together. You can take care of your son and not be wit his mom.

Why do women fall for thugs yet complain they cant find good guys?

you quit being what she wanted?

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Why do women fall for thugs yet complain they cant find good guys?

My boyfriend asks me this alot. I think it has alot to do with maturity. Several young or immature girls are intrigued by the "bad boy style" and often don't realize that these guys are good for nothing. I agree with the OP, you evolved, she didn't--you can't make her. Move on to someone who want's something out of life.

Why do women fall for thugs yet complain they cant find good guys?

because women are stoopid that way.

by the way, they have cheating hearts and wondering eyes.

they dont know a good thing when they see one.

they just want the sex, excitement and the money. thats all.

so when u straigtened up and became one of us 'normal' guys. u officially became uncool. sorry dude. return to your old ways and u'll get laid more often. women are materialistic, shallow.

i know man. i know.

Why do women fall for thugs yet complain they cant find good guys?

I think ladies LIKE the "bad boy" image, but really are looking for a responsible caring man in their lives.

To win - look like one, but don't act like it too often.

Why do women fall for thugs yet complain they cant find good guys?

sweetie a thug is all she knows. and when you got better she should have done the same. but the hood will be the hood because they don't want nothing else. i'm proud of you and your sucess now move on find you a new chick

Why do women fall for thugs yet complain they cant find good guys?

woman who go out with "bad boys" or pathetic losers as i call them are insecure drama queens. they want excitement in their lives because they are boring attention seeking drama queens and they want someone to treat them bad because they are pathetic and insecure and "believe" they don't deserve better yet they keep going back. i'm really impressed that you have changed for your child because it takes alot of courage and responsibilty to become the person you need to be for your child. don't waste another minute on your ex (his mother) because she is playing games. if you go back she will continue to do it and you will be just as bad as the girls who want bad boys and thugs. good luck and find a nice girl who deserves you.

Why do women fall for thugs yet complain they cant find good guys?

Women are nuts!

Why do women fall for thugs yet complain they cant find good guys?

Fact from fiction, truth from diction. In spite of what their mouth say, the majority of women do not want good guys or gentlemen, too boring and dull. If you are not a Casanova pretty boy that looks like he fell out of a Calvin Klein ad, with the personality of standing tap water, and the smarts of a common garden slug, they want a thug. A hood rat. A cad. Some oafish a** hole to use and abuse them and treat them like dirt. But, the bad boy is like the roller coaster, an element of danger. Like playing with matched in a field of wheat. It is like having the hot red sports car. When she pull to the curve everyone is oowing and ahhhhhhhing. Even though she is left stranded way too many times. She can ignore that for the few times she can be the spot light and hug curves at break neck speed getting there. You are like the dependable car that will get you there, get you home, but goes unseen by on lookers(at least the circles she runs in) Some girls can not tell the difference between tall timber and scrub brush. They want flash over substance. And the thing about flash, it burns you. One day she will see how many times she has been burned and look for substance but by that time guys like you will have been snatched up by women who had some sense. It is one thing to ride around in 20 in DUBs and look like you have money. And another thing driving up on fully equip Jag and having people know you have the money.

Why do women fall for thugs yet complain they cant find good guys?

Good luck brother. Sorry to read this.

I was underemployed when I met my ex. I got work, then promoted myself to a good ft job in NYC %26amp; working pt. I was also going to night school, volunteering %26amp; networking. Then I was about to be offered a great job in a University when she self destructed.

My ex did some crazy stuff

%26amp; I divorced her. She went nuts! Cheated, stole $, lied to the police, lied in court, got me fired from a job, spread rumors in town %26amp; did everything to destroy me. In the process she destroyed our son who is still socially %26amp; emotionally years behind. To boot, 3 judges caught her committing perjury but she was never punished! One judge had her physically removed from court for threatening my lawyer.

I can't respect her anymore. She's been living with a guy for 5 years + but is always trying to go to bed with me. The guy she is with is a good guy %26amp; she has already cheated on him.

He cried on my shoulders...%26amp; he's a tough guy.

Crazy thing, when I told my story in a divorce groups and others, women attacked me! Guess they believe all women are Saints.

My bud says "they crush you once, they crush you again." Good luck.

Why do women fall for thugs yet complain they cant find good guys?

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